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We are the
forsaken children of the world. Although we come from various
ethnic and religious backgrounds and seemingly have little in common there
is a common thread
woven through us. As children we stood by and watched
helplessly
as our worlds crumbled apart, depending on strangers to come to our
rescue and decide our fate, a fate which many times was worse than what
we were delivered from. We have a variety of stories to
tell--some of appreciation for the caring people who took us into their
homes, some of seeming indifference to our circumstances, and some of
hatred toward foster parents who cared not for us, but only for the
monetary and personal gain. Even though some of us were
fortunate
enough to have been placed in a better environment many
of us were placed in homes with people who simply were not equipped to
deal with our special emotional needs stemming from the trauma we
suffered from having been ripped away from our homes and families,
however abusive and neglectful they may have been. Though our
experiences are diverse, we share the same basic feelings of loss,
isolation, shame, and pain. Our childhood wounds have left us
feeling stigmatized. Many of us feel as though we have been
nothing but a burden--unwanted by our parents and dumped off on
society's doorstep to be still a further burden. Though we
may
strive mightily to belong in life's mainstream we
find ourselves more often on the fringes of life--homeless,
incarcerated, and generally bankrupt. It may appear we walk
the
same roads as everyone else, but our shoes show the
difference.
Try as we may to find our home in this world, the search has often
seemed futile. It is this search that has drawn us toward
another
path, a path of our own choosing...
We are
tired of being angry,
ashamed, and alone. We want to end our isolation. F.A.C.T.
brings us
together to share our experiences, face our past, and walk a new path
that will build a bridge to healing.
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